The reasons why many relationships fail
Not with a big bang. Not with an affair. Not with a huge fight.
But quietly. Gradually. Over years.
- Conversations that feel like checklists: "Who is picking up the kids?" or "Did you get the groceries?"
- Evenings on the couch where you sit next to each other, but you are each doing your own thing
- The feeling that you love your partner, but aren't in love with them anymore
- Intimacy that has gone from "rarely" to "almost never"
- Arguments that always go the same way and never resolve anything
"Is this still the relationship I want?"
The most common reasons why relationships fail
Couples rarely break up over a single fight. It's many little things that accumulate over months and years – often without you even realizing it.- 🔇 Poor communication
- 🚶♂️🚶♀️ Growing apart
- 🔥 Fading passion
- 😤 Growing dissatisfaction
- ⚖️ Imbalance in the relationship
- 💔 Breaches of trust
- 🧱 Unresolved conflicts that build up
- 🥱 The relationship always comes last
- 🧭 Disagreements about the future
None of them mean the love is gone.
A breakup after 15 years doesn't happen because the love dies after 15 years. It happens because for 15 years, small problems were left unresolved.
What research has discovered about happy couples
Over 500 scientific studies over the past decades have investigated what happy couples do differently. The answers are surprisingly concrete.Here is one example:
A long-term study by the University of Washington found that it's not the big arguments that destroy relationships – but rather how couples react to the small, everyday moments. Couples who interact positively in at least 5 out of 6 everyday interactions stay together. If this ratio drops below that? A breakup becomes likely.
That means: It's not grand romantic gestures that save a relationship. It's hundreds of small moments, and this is exactly where most couples fail, without realizing it.
Research also shows:
- Criticism of the partner (not the behavior) is the strongest predictor of a breakup
- Couples who avoid conflict break up just as often as couples who constantly argue
- Emotional distance develops on average 3–5 years before the actual breakup
114 studies. One program. 90 days.
That is why we have packaged the 114 most important study results from over 500 studies into a single, practice-oriented program.No academic jargon. No theory without application. Instead, concrete strategies that you can apply in your relationship from Day 1.
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- According to statistics, over 50% of couples separate
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- 114 relationship studies as a basis
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Many of our participants have reignited their love with their partner.
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Saving your relationship
with 114 studies
With 5 minutes a day you can already implement the first impulses after a few days. Many participants report a noticeably improved relationship after 90 days.
Avoid a breakup
We rely on 114 relationship studies and a lot of analysis so you can unleash the full potential of your relationship.
- You can use our Web App on your mobile phone and computer
- Developed by relationship experts and up to date with the latest science
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Lead a happy and fulfilling relationship.
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Course Details
Scientifically built on 114 relationship studiesThe future
The scientifically based program that works for many relationships.
Studies say that many breakups can be prevented if couples handle the relationship right.
4600+ improved relationships Better Relationship Program Based on 114 relationship studies
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- Happier relationship with 5 minutes a day
- Many strategies that lower the risk of breakup
- Designed as an individual course (over 80% do it alone)
- Partner access included (at no extra charge)
- Lifetime access incl. all updates
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Frequently Asked Questions
Answers to frequently asked questions.
Does my partner have to participate?
No. The program is designed as an individual course. 80% of our participants do the course alone and about 20% do it together with their partner. However, you can provide your partner with access for free at any time.
Does this also work for long relationships (10+ years)?
Especially then. Many of our most successful participants have been together for 10, 15, or even 20+ years.
Gabi: "Took the course after over 20 years of marriage and it is very good."
Julia: "We have been married for 12 years and the course did us a lot of good."
Torsten: "This program helped us see each other as partners again."
In long relationships, patterns creep in that you don't even notice yourself. The 114 studies in the program uncover exactly these blind spots.
Is there a guarantee?
Yes, you have a 14-day money-back guarantee with no questions asked.
You have 14 days to test the complete program. If it doesn't help you, just send a short email and you will get the full purchase amount back. No questions, no conditions.
What if couples are already on the verge of separation?
Then now is exactly the right time.
Studies say that many separations would be avoidable if couples followed certain patterns in relationships. The problem is not that the love is gone, but that neither knows exactly what they should do in the relationship.
Our program provides exactly these tools: scientifically based, immediately applicable, step by step.
And even if you are unsure: For €119 with a money-back guarantee, you have nothing to lose.
I only have 5 minutes a day. Is that enough?
Yes. The program is designed for people with little time. Christoph: "With two small children and a full-time job, my time is limited. But the 5 minutes a day are really manageable. I did it in the evenings on the couch."
How quickly will I see results?
Many participants report initial positive shifts after 1-2 weeks. Individual results may vary.
In 90 days, a relationship that feels like love again.
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